It becomes a situation of mind over matter at first, the cane lands, there’s that beat of nothing at all, and then searing fiery pain in a perfect line that slowly spreads out. Our bodies are meant to urge us, sometimes aggressively, to avoid pain. Taking a cane strike feels like taking a cane strike, whether or not you’ve got some crossed wires that let you enjoy the after-effects of the pain a little differently than other people.
A lot of people seem to assume that masochists/painsluts just don’t have pain receptors, but we ABSOLUTELY do. When I play (specifically pain-based play) I’m just like everyone else in the world that at first my body panics. But, being constantly stressed and having your brain constantly telling you the endless list of shit you should be doing is exhausting. My Dom likes to point out that the bar I set for myself is so high that it’s impossible to reach, and I usually respond that if it was achievable I’d be bored to fucking tears. The clear downside to being this kind of type-A is that I’m almost constantly stressed out and I never relax. I’m high-strung pretty much all the time because of my type-A personality, which means that if I’m not going 100mph in my life in all areas I basically feel like a useless sack of flesh. Subspace is the primary reason I think I’m such a masochist/painslut. What does all ^that^ scientific jargon mean in plain English? Basically, when you experience pain and pleasure together (and you are someone who has at least some level of enjoyment from both) your body can get all kinds of crossed-wires in the brain, dump a bunch of happy chemicals into your brain, and it’s phenomenal.Īlright, so what do you think it feels like? Many submissives once reaching a height of subspace will lose all sensation of pain, as any stimuli causes the period to prolong.” Producing a sort of trance-like state due to the increase of hormones and chemicals, the submissive starts to feel out-of-body, detached from reality, and as the high comes down, and the parasympathetic nervous system kicks in, a deep exhaustion, as well as incoherence. These natural chemicals, part of the fight or flight response, produce the same effect as a morphine-like drug, increasing the pain tolerance of the submissive as the scene becomes more intense. “During the scene, the intense experiences of both pain and pleasure trigger a sympathetic nervous system response, which causes a release of epinephrine from the suprarenal glands, as well as a dump of endorphins and enkephalins. Subspace is a state that submissives can reach during an intense scene with their Dominant partner. Okay, so for those just dipping their toes into the BDSM community, you may be asking what the hell I’m even talking about, so I’m going to steal a quick medical explanation from submissive guide, because they can toss around the scientific jargon (and save me the effort of a lot more research than I need to do since this already exists: here). Subspace may feel similar or vastly different to what I describe, but I will say that no matter who I’ve heard describe it – it’s so, so lovely. I’d like to remind everyone reading that this is just my perspective on it. Curious what the #AskMeAnything is? Check out the official AMA page on my site over here.Ī: I actually had a different post planned for today (you’ll get that one next week now!) but yesterday I had someone on Facebook send me a message asking if I could define subspace, and I did my best to give them my answer as to what subspace is like, but then I thought it would be a good topic to have in this AMA collection. ISBN 2-2.It’s Ask Me Anything time again! Today, I’m answering a question that was sent to me on Facebook about subspace. Invariant Subspaces (Update of 1973 Springer-Verlag ed.). Heydar Radjavi and Peter Rosenthal (2003).Translated from the 1985 Russian-language edition (Kharkov, Ukraine). Introduction to the Theory of Banach Representations of Groups.
Society for Industrial and Applied Mathematics (SIAM). 51 (Reprint, with list of errata and new preface, of the 1986 Wiley ed.). Invariant Subspaces of Matrices with Applications.
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